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Deciding on a date requires planning - if you're
corresponding with your potential date online, then you can discuss some ideas,
suggest a few and come to a mutual agreement. In the past, it seems the onus
was on the Man to decide the date and ensure everything ran smoothly. Nowadays,
woman let their opinions be heard about what they'd enjoy doing. Compromise and
choose something that is fun.
The dates that are enjoyable, help keep relationships amusing.
The more unique and creative they are, the more memorable they may be.
Say you're in a long distance relationship. Why not arrange
a video-date. You both rent the same movie and start playing it the same time,
whilst talking on the phone. It's great if it's a romantic comedy.
Teach your partner whilst getting intimate. If you know
something well enough that you could spend an hour or so teaching your partner,
then great. It might be photography, an instrument, a sport or whatever. You'll
get closer and have some educational fun. For instance, I've taught self-defense.
Not only is it a chance to get intimate and enjoyable, but it's also highly
worthwhile.
If you're starting out, why not keep a diary of your dating
memories. Then maybe sometime down the line, say at a special occasion, bring
out the diary and spend a night reminiscing on your history so far together.
Ongoing Date Ideas - maybe go to all restaurants, bars or
cafes in an A to Z fashion. Start out at Alf's bar, then maybe Bernie’s
Burgers, followed by Charlie's Chip Shop. It'll take a few dates, but make it
memorable by taking photos outside each location and eventually put an 'A-Z of
love' photo album together of the best pictures.
Be Historic - visit an archaeology dig or old ruins.
If you know a fair bit about your date's teenage years (over
a while find out without them being suspicious), plan a date that takes them
back and brings back old memories. A tour of any old places they grew up, cafes,
schools, favorite places.
Create a list of 20 or so strange questions and get each
other to fill them in and discuss and read them out.
Take a class together one day and maybe that evening use the
knowledge. For instance, attend a morning workshop in photography basics. Buy a
couple of disposable cameras and late afternoon or evening, take a trip to an
area you've always wanted to go to but 'never got the chance'. Use your new
found knowledge and put it to the test.
Plan a date that revolves around a book - maybe it's
cooking, dreams, astrology, or whatever.
Got any more creative date ideas? Well, email them to me and
I'll be sure to add them to the list.
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